7 Foods Women in Perimenopause Should Eat to Feel Their Best

by | Nutrition and Change

Sounds like another one of those boring health posts telling you to live off kale and quinoa, doesn’t it? But stay with me – these 7 foods aren’t just any foods. They’re your midlife superpowers on a plate: helping you balance hormones, stay strong and lean, have more energy, and even lose weight (if that’s on your agenda).

Today I’m sharing the exact foods that made a massive difference for me and my clients – the ones that took me from feeling foggy, tired, and like my body wasn’t my own anymore… to feeling strong, vibrant, and confident again.

🥦 1. Cruciferous Veggies: Your Liver’s New Besties

Broccoli, cauliflower, kale, cabbage – the humble cruciferous veg isn’t just for Sunday roast. Packed with sulforaphane and indole-3-carbinol (fancy names for powerful compounds), these beauties help your liver break down and clear excess oestrogen.

This is crucial during perimenopause when hormonal fluctuations can cause bloating, stubborn fat (hello, muffin top), and mood swings.

They’re also rich in fibre for gut health and vitamin K for bone strength – two things we absolutely need more of in midlife.

I wasn’t a massive broccoli fan before. But once I started adding these into meals – sautéed kale with eggs, roasted cauliflower on the side – I noticed my digestion improved, my skin looked clearer, and I just felt… lighter.

Quick tip: Start small. A handful of spinach in your smoothie or broccoli in your stir-fry. And if you fancy something new, try roasting broccoli with grated cheese until crispy. I haven’t tested it yet, but it’s on my list.

🍓 2. Berries: The Midlife Sweet Treat

Strawberries, blueberries, raspberries… little gems bursting with antioxidants that fight inflammation and oxidative stress – two big contributors to ageing and hormonal symptoms.

Berries are brilliant for heart health, blood sugar control, and even brain health. Studies show they may help with memory and focus – perfect for tackling perimenopause brain fog.

Tip: To avoid blood sugar spikes, pair them with protein or fats (think Greek yoghurt or a handful of nuts).

When I swapped my afternoon biscuit for blueberries and Greek yoghurt, my 4pm crash vanished. Energy steady. No sugar cravings later.

Keep a punnet in the fridge, toss them into smoothies, or freeze them for winter.

🌱 3. Hormone-Helping Seeds (and a Nod to Mum)

Tiny seeds. Massive impact.

Flaxseeds, chia seeds, hemp seeds, sesame seeds – all rich in fibre, healthy fats, and phytoestrogens (plant compounds that gently mimic oestrogen). They help balance hormones, reduce bloating, improve mood, and support heart health.

My mum was onto this years ago, sprinkling flax on her porridge. Back then I thought it was odd. Now? I do the same – and my digestion, mood, and energy thank me.

Quick breakdown:

  • Flaxseeds: Rich in lignans and omega-3s – excellent for hormonal balance.

  • Chia seeds: Great for blood sugar and satiety.

  • Hemp seeds: Packed with protein and magnesium – mood and sleep support.

  • Sesame seeds: Calcium and zinc for bones and hormones.

Start with 1 tbsp of ground flax or chia daily. Sprinkle hemp hearts on salads, drizzle tahini (hello, sesame) over roasted veg.

🐟 4. Fatty Fish: Oily Little Hormone Helpers

Salmon, sardines, mackerel – rich in omega-3 fatty acids to reduce inflammation, support brain health, and regulate mood. They even ease joint pain (midlife bonus).

I wasn’t raised on fish, but adding salmon twice a week made a big difference. My skin felt less dry, my energy steadier.

Not a fish fan? Consider a high-quality fish oil supplement (or algae oil if plant-based).

🥚 5. Protein: Your Midlife BFF

Protein helps maintain muscle mass (which declines with oestrogen), boosts metabolism, and keeps you full longer. It also has a thermogenic effect – your body burns more energy digesting it.

Think chicken, eggs, tofu, legumes, Greek yoghurt.

Aim: About 1g of protein per pound of ideal body weight daily. Start your day strong – 30g of protein at breakfast keeps cravings away.

Since prioritising protein, I feel stronger in workouts and my body composition shifted. Not overnight, but step by step.

🥑 6. Healthy Fats: Don’t Fear the Fat

Avocados, olive oil, nuts, seeds – these support hormone production, brain health, and the absorption of fat-soluble vitamins (A, D, E, K).

In the low-fat 90s, I avoided these. Big mistake. Adding fats back – avocado on toast, olive oil on salads – left me fuller for longer and my skin glowing.

Ditch the low-fat products. Your hormones (and taste buds) will thank you.

🥣 7. Fermented Foods: For Happy Guts & Happy Hormones

Kefir, sauerkraut, kimchi, live yoghurt – fermented foods replenish good gut bacteria. This supports hormone metabolism, reduces bloating, and improves mood.

Fun fact: About 90% of your serotonin (your feel-good hormone) is made in the gut.

I noticed less bloating and fewer sugar cravings once I added kefir regularly. Homemade sauerkraut or kombucha? Surprisingly easy (and yes, I have a video on that).

Start small: A spoonful of sauerkraut or a glass of kefir daily.

✨ Final Thoughts: Your Midlife Reset Starts Here

There you have it – 7 foods (or food groups) that aren’t just good for you; they help you step into midlife feeling vibrant, strong, and like yourself again.

You don’t need a perfect diet – just add a little more of the good stuff each day. This isn’t about restriction. It’s about fuelling your body so you can thrive.

💬 Which of these foods will you try first? Drop it in the comments – I’d love to know!

🎁 Don’t forget to grab my free Midlife Reset Guide – packed with 9 practical steps for thriving in midlife.

👉 And if you’re ready to break through that midlife weight plateau, check out my next post: 7 Overlooked Tips to Smash Through Stubborn Weight Loss.

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